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I Am Not Getting Married Today

I Am Not Getting Married Today

My friend Zizly was dumped just a few months before her wedding by a man she had been with for nine years. This is her story. I was supposed to be a married woman today. That’s not happening. Seven months ago I was dumped. It […]

Stop Comparing and Start Connecting

Stop Comparing and Start Connecting

How many times in your life have you thought, “nobody gets what I’m going through.” “No one has had it worse.” “No one’s self-esteem has ever been this low,” or “No one has hurt this bad”? In this silly little comparison game that we like […]

15-Minute Meals

15-Minute Meals

I have been in baseball mode for the last couple of months. What does that mean? Zero time to cook or sit down for dinner as a family five to six nights a week. Between my daughter’s year-round competitive gymnastics and baseball, forget it. (Sigh, […]

Meet Carly

Meet Carly

Episode 1: Hello! I’m Carly and my life has gone anything but the way I thought it would. Can you relate? Join me each week for inspiring interviews, plus tips and tricks to living your best life, even if it’s not the life you planned.

Learning to Find Joy When Holidays Don’t Go According to Plan

Learning to Find Joy When Holidays Don’t Go According to Plan

Easter is my favorite holiday. Regardless of your faith or lack of, Easter for me represents new beginnings and hope for a better tomorrow. A few years ago I lost my joy in the holiday. This is my journey with Easter. My Easter miracle.  I […]

Things I Am Never Too Poor For and How to Get By Paycheck to Paycheck

Things I Am Never Too Poor For and How to Get By Paycheck to Paycheck

I know poor. I know $4 in my bank account poor. I know swimming in debt poor. Through my struggles though, I have discovered there are certain things I will never allow myself to be too poor for and some things you can skimp on […]

You Are Seeing Things Through a Pinhole

You Are Seeing Things Through a Pinhole

I’ve been thinking a lot about people I know who are in “hopeless” situations. A little 8-year-old boy with terminal brain cancer who is in his last days. A 15-year-old girl with a disease so rare that she is the only girl in her entire […]

How to Feel (and Look) Your Very Best When You’re Going Through Hell

How to Feel (and Look) Your Very Best When You’re Going Through Hell

When you’re caught up in one of life’s messy spots it is so easy to just slip under the covers, throw on a hat, and let yourself get lost in the storm. This is the time when taking care of yourself is more important than […]

3 Steps to Getting Through Tough Stuff

3 Steps to Getting Through Tough Stuff

Looking back at all the “tough stuff” I’ve gone through in life I’ve noticed a common theme that has pulled me through. When you find yourself thinking “Ugh, how did I get here?” “How can I find happiness again?” I encourage you to take a […]

Surviving Scoliosis

Surviving Scoliosis

The first time I heard the word scoliosis I was 19. My back felt like it was on fire every single day. So, I went to the doctor. He told me that I had an “S” curve in my spine with the largest curve being […]